Nothing is changing here, we still love each other very much. We are most definitely staying together. For sure there will be some adjustments, but we have already gone through a few of those.
I know this may seem impossible or just not make any sense. For sure it is a drastic change, but what is the most important part of a marriage, or any relationship? If your spouse became a quadriplegic, or blind would that be the end of it? I hope not. If you are like me the most important part of your spouse is their neshama (soul). That hasn’t changed. All the things that brought us to each other are still very much there.